The Experience Paradigm

I can’t believe that I haven’t posted in such a long time. Where does time go.

Anyhow, so in my profile readings for the last few weeks I noticed something that has been staring me in the face for years. I will give you an example of what I mean.

Avatar X profile in the about tab (front page):

Trying to find my way in and around SL, looking for a Mistress that will teach me, transform me to her will, and show me the ways of BDSM.

Very submissive and trying to learn.

Ok, not bad, there is something to look at with that profile, but then I look at the born date and it is 9/8/2006. Say what? You are looking at a very experienced person in SL here.

Every one of her actions is tempered from 9 years of being inworld. Everyone one of your actions as a Mistress will be judged by her prior experiences. Chances are that she is looking for something very specific that she once had and lost. Will her actions and talk be natural? Or will she be role playing her way through the relationship?

I think is the latter and chances are that this relationship is going to be of a short duration. After I recognized this pattern, I have seen more and more profiles similar in their introduction.

I would prefer that they be honest about what they want and what they are looking for, and take into account their prior experiences when they write about themselves.