I’m often approached by some subs wanting to “play” or pursue my dominance but when I look at their profile I find one or two things interesting.
1. They have a SL partner
2. They are owned (sometimes by multiple Mistresses)
My profile is very clear: “looking for a long term sub.”
So when I ask the sub, how about your partner and/or owner, the answer is invariable the same “I’m allowed to play when my partner/owner is not online.”
My questions to them is “where does that leave me?” If we are actively engaged, are you running to your partner/owner when they arrive online? “Of course I would, she is my partner/Mistress and I have to do as they say.”
Can you please explain to me, how is this going to make our relationship a healthy long-term relationship?
Now if we are with a group of Mistresses and their Mistress allows play, let’s do it and enjoy it but take it for what it is, a quickie.
Don’t tell me that you are really going to do what I say when you have someone that you rank above me.
The same can be said about the Mistress with a harem of subs, but that is the subject for a different post.